Life Design Services for Creating What Matters Most in Life, Work, and Business
Deep Change: Personal Life Coaching for Mastery and Meaning
In life design and personal success coaching, as in any skill, the more you practice, the more skill you develop and the better results you produce. One of the primary values of a personal success coaching is thather or she can encourange and reward your practice, and make it fun and easy to do.
This second set of eight personal success coaching sessions is more customized and focuses on four things:
- Embodying the creating skills and life design framework , which enables you to make them your new "go to" habit as you stretch for larger and more complex results;
- A deeper analysis of your "self-talk." Clarifying your "explanatory style" and habitual ways of responding to setbacks and adversity;
- Uncovering the patterns and structures that work for you , and those that prevent you from creating results that matter.
- Clarifying and articulating your purpose in life and an overarching vision for life/work success at what matters most.
Together, as client and personal success coach, we explore how you arrange-or structure - your dreams, desires, values, aspirations, beliefs, fears, doubts, and day to day reality itself. This structure is a critical part of your success, or lack thereof.
Most people's inability to produce desired results is not due to personal failings. It is due to dysfunctional life structures that underly and give rise to dysfunctional patterns of choice and action.
To make deep and lasting change in behavior, I help you identify dysfunctional patterns of behavior-and the structures that give rise to them-and substitute structures lead you to what you do want to create.
During deep change sessions, I help you discover simple but powerful patterns such as the "Yeah, but.," pattern, and deeper "structural conflicts," in which two values or desires compete, or desire and fear cancel each other.
Most important, as your personal life coach, I help you transcend those dysfunctional patterns and behavior. I help you shift your choices and action into structures such as "Yes, and.". This and other structures can ensure that your actions consistently support your dreams and desires.
Finally, a critical job of your personal success coach is to help you commit to the results you want to create and to practice the life design structure and creating skills until you can easily and consistently create what matters most to you.
"I'm so happy I went through the deep change process with you. It was illuminating and empowering to recognize the dysfunctional patterns that kept me oscillating back and forth, instead of moving toward what mattered to me. Now, working in the new life design structure you taught me, I can do much more with much less effort and expense. Your personal success coaching really works."